“Separation Anxiety” comes when entering the kindergarten.
At present, it is a group of treasures that are about to enter kindergarten for the first time. Faced with the upcoming “psychological weaning”, parents and children must experience a “separation Anxiety period”. So, what preparations should parents do before entering the kindergarten? Komiks help themselves and their children deal with the “separation anxiety” in entering the kindergarten?
As the name Komiks means, it is the anxiety state that a child showed when he went to kindergarten for the first time. It is a kind of separation anxiety.
It is normal for entry to enter the kindergarten to be anxiousKomiks. Even the most confident children will feel a little nervous when they go to kindergarten for the first time. They have to separate from their favorite parents. What is the kindergarten like? I am also afraid to make new friends!
However, entering kindergarten is a very important step for children, and the anxiety of entering kindergarten can be overcome slowly.
What are the anxiety about entering the garden? Babaylan▼
▍Unwilling to leave his parents
At the kindergarten entrance, he hugged his parents’ thighs, refused to let go, watching him being sent to the kindergarten, even crying and making trouble, using all the tricks that can be used, saying “I don’t want to go to the kindergarten!”
▍No interest in new things
Sent to the kindergartenBaAfter the baylan, the babies were not interested in anything: they were not interested in playing games, they were not interested in new children, and they were not interested in having lunch.
▍Specially quiet
Specially quiet, I was unwilling to speak, no matter what the teacher asked about Cinema questions.
▍When talking about mother, father, and home, these keywords are particularly sensitiveKomiks
Often you stay in a corner in the kindergarten, but when you hear the keywords “Dad”, “Mom” and “Home”, you are particularly sensitive, and you have a very strong reaction and cry.
How do parents and babies overcome “separation anxiety”? ▼
▍Talk to the old and the children before school starts
Enter the park and take a look at the classroom, and try to communicate with the school and teachers in advance. When talking to your baby about going to school, you must also emphasize that going to kindergarten is a happy thing. You must not say things like “If you are disobedient, you will send you to kindergarten”. Who is not afraid of such words?
The whole family mobilized, talk more and encourage more, and told the baby Babaylan: “It is great that you can go to kindergarten when you grow up, it is the pride of your parents!”
▍Relieve the baby’s anxiety through games
Using toys, Babaylan simulates the situation of going to kindergarten, so that the baby will be a mother, and treats the doll as a child, telling the baby that this short separation is safe.Yes, no problem.
It is also possible to play hide-and-seek. This kind of game can help children experience “safe separation” and relieve the anxiety of separation from you.
▍In the transition period, give a photo
You can choose your most warm and loving photos to print them, make them into necklaces, stickers, etc., and take them to kindergarten so that they can relieve the pain of missing you.
▍Make enough sleep
Let the child go to bed 15 minutes earlier than usual, so that he can sleep enough and have enough energy to face new things.
▍Take your child to the school first
It is difficult to avoid children’s anxiety in the face of a new environment. Getting in front of the new environment will help alleviate the anxiety of Babaylan.
Make a plan and take your baby to the kindergarten. Tell the baby what trees are next to it, what you can see through the classroom window, what other older children may be playing in the playground, etc.
Every time the kindergarten starts its new school year, many parents of new students are worried. Some parents were so distressed that they wiped their tears outside when they saw their children crying in the classroom; some parents would wait outside the door of the kindergarten, secretly looking inside through the gaps in the fence through the fence.
What makes teachers even more worried is that they not only need to comfort their children, but also take on the heavy responsibility of comforting their parents. You should know that babies sometimes become anxious because of their parents’ excessive tension, so moms and dads CnemaBe stronger!
Children’s admission is about to begin. I hope that every little baby will survive the anxiety period of separation with the help of his parents and teachers and grow up happily and healthily!
Source｜Xinhuanet
Picture｜Visual China
Editor｜Cui Wencan